Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Wednesdays...my new favorite weekday!

I love Wednesdays!!! Why? Because I don't have to work tonight!!!! YAY!!! Don't get me wrong...I love working at the bar...just really appreciate my nights off. Not having to work tonight gives me some peace in mind that I can take my time in doing everything I have to do today...which is alot! I got to bed by 3:30am and was up by 9am sharp. Had to take my car in for service today. Poor Rocco, he has been recently neglected. He desperately needs to be cleaned inside and out. Anyone able to help me with this? LOL!!!

I am training with my trainer today. I am determined to get some boxing in. Sort of in the mood to kick some ass and I really want to feel that good pain all over tomorrow...makes me laugh....lol!

A piece of exciting news; I get my business cards today!!! OMG....so friggin excited!!! This has been a bit of a lengthy procedure and I super happy for it to be over and I can start spreading the news about my new business.

I sort of want to chat about something...I have a rule for the bar. I WILL NOT date any customers...ever! This rule came about from an experience last year...while working at that bar. Granted it was a very different time with a very different feel and very different people. I don't care!!! My rule is a rule and that is the end of that!!! Now...I am pretty hard fast with rules. I respect them...especially when they are my own. I will almost never budge and I can not be persuaded. With all this said, I have 2 costumers that have been trying to take me out for some time now. One more than the other. The one that is pretty persistent...we'll call him A. He is a cool dude...not my flavour however. I have partied with him once outside of the bar (at a party)...and have had drinks with him and a few others...again outside of the bar. One the one hand...I am thinking...maybe he is cool enough to just let this be as it is....and on the other hand...I can see that he has expectations...which are presenting themselves...and in turn...makes things awkward. I have definitely stated my case and yet...he thinks he can convince me otherwise. Hmmmm!!!

Now...as for dude B....he is kind of sexy...ok...a lot sexy! LOL!!! I like him SOBER! After a few beers...he gets kind of wild...and I don't like it! But that doesn't matter...cause I won't date him! LOL!! This one is also pretty determined to hang out outside of the bar. Now...I have had to become pretty resourceful with how I handle these situations. I can't afford to offend these guys...they are regulars, they are very very nice to me, they have my back, they tip well and bottom line...I want to keep them...as customers. So...here is where my Gemini Jedi skills come into play...lol! It is a bit of a balancing act to be honest. I would get into detail about this...but that would be sharing some industry secrets....no can do! Sorry!

There have been a few (many) others that have tried to ask me out...to which my reply is a bold " I don't date customers!!" This has been a pretty successful deterrent for those that acknowledge my decision and respect the conviction behind it. I won't deny that it is flattering and fuel for the ego. Seeing as this is, as of late, my only socialization and window to the outside world...I will take it!

Ok...that is enough babble for one day! xo P