Friends with Benefits....the movie.

I saw that movie the other day....like Sunday night I think. I actually really liked it. Maybe because Justin was in it and I absolutely love that man or maybe it was because it was actually funny or maybe because I am a sucker for love stories....as was Mila Kunis' character in the movie. Either way...I really like the movie.

It got me thinking...I am always thinking. No....that wasn't what it made me think about...lol! It made me think about what most single women think about...fairy tales; Prince Charming, Knight in shining armour, etc. When I watch these movies...I hate myself for doing so. Why? Because then I am forced to remember that I am missing the fabulousness of having a man in my life. If it wasn't for these freakn movies...I wouldn't care so much. I am sure you are asking....why do you watch movies then? To which my reply is.....because I am a masochist. I simply can't help myself. I LOVE MOVIES. I am a sucker for these romantic comedies....total sucker.

In the movie 'Friends with Benefits', Justin and Mila become the best of friends and throw sex into the mix which totally messes things up...naturally. They manage to clear some things up and try it again for it to fail terribly...again. They make is look so easy at the beginning. Just that friendship alone is amazing. I can relate. I have a dear dear dear friend who is a man. We have never had sex and will never have sex. How can I be so sure? That is a topic for another blog. Take my word for it! We've been friends for over 10 years. However...over the past year or so...it has been the best it has ever been. There is a love there...definitely but a different love than one that exists between 2 people in a non-friendship setting. Does that make sense? Moving along....

I think the point of my thoughts today is this; Prince Charming has been on my mind A LOT!!! Where the f*** are you man? LOL

A revelation for you; I think I have been purposefully sabotaging myself for awhile now. I am always saying out loud....to the world that I don't have time to nurture a relationship now. I work like 60 hours a week. The only social setting I have is at the bar and I am not so sure that I am going to meet Prince Charming there. Who knows!! Not me! Plus...everyone tells me I will meet someone through my business....there is hope there! LOL

I am not getting any younger....that is for sure!

Wish me luck folks! xo P