Wednesday, April 18, 2012

And so it begins!

Yay!! Happy Hump Day to all!

I love waking up to the sun pushing through my blinds. I love waking up to my little nerd wagging his tail in my face followed by a wet nose in my eye. LOL I love it when I have a great sleep. I love it when I have a great shift at the bar. That is this day. I can't say that it happens often but when it does...feels good. I have a zumba class tonight that I am super excited for. I swear...this is truly the next best thing to getting my groove on at a club. Granted I am in sweats and runners versus a dress and stilettos. I prefer this way. No money spent and it's only ladies so no one gives a shit that you are sweating your ass off. Good times!

I am sitting here in the office, trying to cipher through my billion thoughts and pick one to chat about. Nothing is standing out to me. I thought about sharing yet again...how small this world is. One of my Dad's friend's friend came in last to the bar. I almost shat my pants. I haven't seen this guy in over 5 years and as soon as I saw him...I knew how I met him. CRAZY! What the hell is he doing at my bar? I asked him just that....turns out he lives in the neighbourhood. Huh!

I feel like something has changed in me. Let me rephrase; I know something has changed in me. It just seems odd to see the actual change. Let me explain...when I was on POF the last time around which was, oh goodness, a year ago...I was all over the dating  business. I went out on 3-4 dates a week. IT WAS CRAZY! My rationale was that I didn't want to waste time chatting online...if there was something there...I wanted to find out for real. Well...I don't have that same mentality this time. I definitely do NOT want to go out on a 100 dates. In fact, I don't really even want to go out on one date. I have gotten lazy or maybe I am just hanging onto the emotional/mental exhaustion from the previous dating regime. Either way; I am not looking forward to getting out there again. This is a bit of a bad start if you ask me. Hmmm!!!

On a lighter note; I stumbled on this guy yesterday that I actually went out on a couple dates with a year ago. He definitely caught my attention the last time as he did this time. Why it didn't work last time? I think we were very different in character. He is a way more folksy/calm/mellow than I am. We clashed before...but I don't believe it would be this way again. Now...because we didn't leave on bad terms at all...I messaged him and said; "LMAO...WOW!! You are still here! Looking good Sunshine!" LOL His reply was just as playful. He asked me out on a date. He happens to be on a trip in Ireland so when he gets back...we are going out. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! It blows my mind how things happen. F***S ME UP! And so there it is folks!

xo P

2 comments:

Lee said...

Online dating never worked out for me. Only friends of friends really worked. If I had any single men that matched your style, I would totally hook you up.

Vivi said...

Online dating worked for us. Go with your gut... it never lies. xoxo